Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Sunday, April 20, 2008

THE WISDOM OF FLORENCE ANN

Life and the Things I've Learned
I've learned
That you can do something in an
instant
That will give you heartache for
life.
I've learned
That it's taking me a long time
To become the person I want to
be.
I've learned
That you should always leave
loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see
them.
I've learned
That you can keep going
Long after you can't.
I've learned
That we are responsible for what
we do,
No matter how we feel.
I've learned
That you either control your
attitude
Or it controls you.
I've learned
That heroes are the people who
do what has to be done
When it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences.
I've learned
That money
Is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've learned
That sometimes the people you
expect to kick you when you're down
Are the ones to help you get back
up.
I've learned
That sometimes when I'm angry,
I have the right to be angry.
But that doesn't give me the right
to be cruel.
I've learned
That true friendship continues to
grow, even over the longest distance.
Same goes for true love.
I've learned
That just because someone doesn't
love you the way you want them to
Doesn't mean they don't love you
with all they have.
I've learned
That maturity has to do with
what types of experiences you've
had and what you've learned from
them
And less to do with how many
birthdays you've celebrated.
Families aren't biological.
I've learned
That no matter how good a friend
is, they're going to hurt you every
once in a while
And you must forgive them for
that.
I've learned
That it isn't always enough to be
forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn to
forgive yourself.
I've learned
That no matter how bad your
heart is broken
The world doesn't stop for your
grief.
I've learned
That our background and
circumstances may have influenced
who we are,
But we are responsible for who
we become.
I've learned
That just because two people
argue, it doesn't mean they don't love
each other
And just because they don't argue,
it doesn't mean that they do.
I've learned
That we don't have to change
friends
If we understand that friends
change.
I've learned
That you shouldn't be so eager to
find out a secret.
It could change your life forever.
I've learned
That two people can look at the
exact same thing
And see something totally
different.
I've learned
That your life can be changed in a
matter of hours
By people who don't even know
you.
I've learned
That even when you think you
have no more to give
When a friend cries out to you,
you will find the strength to help.
I've learned
That credentials on the wall
Do not make you a decent human
being.
I've learned
That the people you care about
most in life
Are taken from you too soon.

Monday, April 14, 2008

A ZEN TALE


PSYCHIC POLARITY

An old monk and a Samurai meet. The Samurai asks the monk: "Please, explain to me what paradise and hell are." The old man stares for some moments at the Samurai's powerful frame. Then an insulting sneer appears on his face and he says: "Step aside and make room for me, you dirty, stinking soldier."

The Samurai, offended by these words, turned red with anger and his eyes flashing with vengeance, takes out his sword. He advances towards the monk with his sword ready to hit. The old man looks calmly at him and then says: "This is hell." The sword slowly comes down and the Samurai's face is covered with amazement. With his heart still beating fast he understands that the old monk has just risked his life to explain this truth. Now he feels only gratitude and his eyes reflect of this feeling. The monk concludes: "And this instead is paradise."

Torment, anger and sadness are feelings very near to everything that opens up to us- love, joy, and gratitude. They are near because there is only a fraction of a second that separates one state or condition from another. We think that love and hatred, joy and sadness are alien to us, distant from each other. When we are enveloped by one feeling, the other seems unthinkable. Passing from one state to another of these feelings instead, can be spontaneous and unexpected as in the case of the Samurai.

Word Watch:

Samurai - a Japanese warrior
Katana - sword use by the Samurai